He was sometimes so intellectual that I felt myself annihilated as a woman; at other times he was so wild and passionate, so desiring, that I almost trembled before him. At times I was like a stranger to him; at times he surrendered completely. Then when I threw my arms around him, everything changed, and … Read more
Your seduction should never follow a simple path towards pleasure. The climax that comes too soon is weak. We appreciate things that make us suffer. A brush wit death makes us love life, a long journey makes home more pleasurable. Create moments of sadness and despair – this is the tension before the release. Don’t … Read more
People are insecure about their bodies and their real lives. To seduce them, transport them somewhere else. Make them believe that your union is a kind of spiritual destiny, that it goes beyond the base desires of regular people. Focus on ideals such as beauty or the sublime or sadness or truth. Show that you … Read more
It is often not possible for [women] later on to undo the connection thus formed in their minds between sensual activities and something forbidden, and they turn out to be psychically impotent, i.e. frigid, when at last such activities do become permissible. This is the source of the desire in so many women to keep … Read more
The oedipal regression strategy must be tailored to your target. If you know that were attached to their parent of the opposite sex but only partially negative, then the strategy may be effective. The strategy calls on you to remind them of their childhood, by acting out their parent’s role and getting them to live … Read more
Most people want to be seduced. If they resist you, it is because you have not gone far enough to prove the depth of your feelings, and the honesty of your motives. One well-timed action can dispel their doubts. Don’t worry about looking foolish. Meet the challenge by doing something extreme or chivalrous, on the … Read more
In Cairo Aly bumped into [the singer] Juliette Greco again. He asked her to dance. • “You have too bad a reputation,” she replied. “We’re going to sit very much apart.” – • “What are you doing tomorrow?” he insisted. • “Tomorrow I take a plane to Beirut.” • When she boarded the plane, Aly … Read more
The uncanny is what is familiar but what is ultimately not real. Think of theater or dreams or deja vu. The message here is to create this kind of aura, to resemble a great figure of the past, perhaps a Greek statue, to use props, to use vaguely familiar language. Essentially, to role play. Society … Read more
If you are constantly maneuvering, and over aggressive, you will drive your targets away. By appearing bashful, fragile, you can get them to fall for you. People misunderstand Casanova, he was not someone who constantly pursued woman, but he was being pursued by them. He had some qualities that revealed his weaknesses and women found … Read more
Familiarity destroys seduction. This happens after your target has gotten to know you, and has discovered that you were not who they thought you were. You should not disappear completely, this will shift your target’s attention away from you, but being too available will make you seem all too human. You cannot be idealized if … Read more