
The Dichotomy of the Self
An exploration of the theories and tensions that shape identity, self-sabotage, and the stories we tell about who we are.
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Why Most Advice is Bullsh*t
A provocative examination of why conventional wisdom so often fails us, and why popular self-help principles can be counterproductive.
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An exploration of the theories and tensions that shape identity, self-sabotage, and the stories we tell about who we are.
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