Is there Wisdom in “The Paradox of Choice”?

Barry came up with the brilliant idea to create flavors that matched a lot of different people’s tastes. He created forty-five varieties of tomato sauce and visited several cities to test them out. Campbell Soup was astonished by the results – a third of Americans were craving a flavor that no one on the market … Read more

The 6 Reasons I Blog

I love to write. I’m not sure why, but I seem to do it consistently over the course of my life. A lot of things around me change, my interests change, the people I spend my time with change, my goals change, but writing has always been there. Here are the 6 reasons why I … Read more

The Procrastination Myth

The Ultimate Time Management Myth Here are some common reasons you’ll read about for why you procrastinate… Either we don’t have a proper schedule or system. We’re too self-confident – we believe in our abilities more than we should. We have too much anxiety that results from fearing failure. We have a warped sense of … Read more

What are Subpersonalities?

“Are people a means to an end or are they an end in themselves?” Other than being momentarily intellectually stimulating, the question – posed by a professor in a course about ethics – wasn’t very meaningful. But I find myself thinking about this question more often as time passes. I was reminded of that question … Read more

Learn to Say No

You have one asset (time) that can and should be considered the most valuable asset you will ever own. It’s the only asset that will never increase, but only decrease in quantity. And almost every single person you will ever meet will want it. “Learn to Say No” is your only antidote.  Jim Carrey starred in … Read more

What the Story of David and Goliath tells us about Introverts and Extroverts

The Victorious Underdog The book “David and Goliath” by Malcolm Gladwell is a story about the underdog. Throughout history, society has celebrated the victories of the disadvantaged hero – understandably so. Often, weak physical stature, lack of material wealth, or inexperience are the crutches the underdog must overcome. And to make matters worse, the victorious … Read more

Is ‘Follow Your Passion’ Bad Advice?

I’ve been thinking recently about the dictum “Follow Your Passion”. But something about that sentiment seemed a little incomplete, and I looked around for some counter advice. Were there people who had good arguments against the famous dictum? And how do you follow your passion? So I stumbled upon a blog that led me to a video … Read more

The Road to Individuation

It is easier to live in a comfortable illusion and believe that people are basically good, and that you are too. Taken to an extreme, this can become pathological. The person that does not want to see reality for what it is does not solve their problems, but only compounds them.   Where bad eyesight can … Read more

How to Live According to Your Values

Evolving Values There is only one authentic way to live, and it’s according to your own values. The more serious considerations are put on hold when you are a child and have not yet developed your superego. As an adult, you will often long for a time when you were not exhausted by the hardships of … Read more

Dealing with Change

Response “Everything is at its acme; especially in the art of making one’s way in the world. There is more required nowadays to make a single wise man than formerly to make Seven Sages, and more is needed nowadays to deal with a single person than was required with a whole people in former times.” … Read more