It is often not possible for [women] later on to undo the connection thus formed in their minds between sensual activities and something forbidden, and they turn out to be psychically impotent, i.e. frigid, when at last such activities do become permissible. This is the source of the desire in so many women to keep … Read more
The oedipal regression strategy must be tailored to your target. If you know that were attached to their parent of the opposite sex but only partially negative, then the strategy may be effective. The strategy calls on you to remind them of their childhood, by acting out their parent’s role and getting them to live … Read more
Most people want to be seduced. If they resist you, it is because you have not gone far enough to prove the depth of your feelings, and the honesty of your motives. One well-timed action can dispel their doubts. Don’t worry about looking foolish. Meet the challenge by doing something extreme or chivalrous, on the … Read more
In Cairo Aly bumped into [the singer] Juliette Greco again. He asked her to dance. • “You have too bad a reputation,” she replied. “We’re going to sit very much apart.” – • “What are you doing tomorrow?” he insisted. • “Tomorrow I take a plane to Beirut.” • When she boarded the plane, Aly … Read more
The uncanny is what is familiar but what is ultimately not real. Think of theater or dreams or deja vu. The message here is to create this kind of aura, to resemble a great figure of the past, perhaps a Greek statue, to use props, to use vaguely familiar language. Essentially, to role play. Society … Read more
If you are constantly maneuvering, and over aggressive, you will drive your targets away. By appearing bashful, fragile, you can get them to fall for you. People misunderstand Casanova, he was not someone who constantly pursued woman, but he was being pursued by them. He had some qualities that revealed his weaknesses and women found … Read more
Familiarity destroys seduction. This happens after your target has gotten to know you, and has discovered that you were not who they thought you were. You should not disappear completely, this will shift your target’s attention away from you, but being too available will make you seem all too human. You cannot be idealized if … Read more
As children, we were more highly influenced by our senses. Spectacles like a circus or the colors of a new toy could fascinate us. Our senses grew duller as we aged. We don’t notice as much because we are constantly moving to get things done. In seduction, you want to take your target to their … Read more
To learn how to seduce with words, either in written or in oral form, you must learn to get outside yourself. Words are not there only so they you can express what you want and your opinions, they can be used to evoke emotion. Master the use of speech, learn how to be poetic but … Read more
You should not approach seduction like it is a job, you should have fun with it. You are creating drama, so be creative! The best kinds of surprises are those that reveal something new about your character. In the beginning, your target will make assumptions about you, based on appearances, go along with it, this … Read more