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The Divided Self

A route into identity, self-knowledge, conflicting motives, and the difficult gap between what a person believes and what a person does.

What happens when two reasonable motives point a person in incompatible directions?

Essays on identity and the self

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An exploration of the theories and tensions that shape identity, self-sabotage, and the stories we tell about who we are.

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  1. Identify a decision where your stated goal and repeated behavior do not quite agree.
  2. Use the Field Guide to describe the competing motives without forcing a quick verdict.
  3. Read further on the theories and tensions that make identity more complicated than a label.