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Part 5: Honest Action (Models)
Men communicate with facts. Women communicate with feelings. When communicating to women, the important thing is intention. Negging is okay, if the intention is light-hearted. Complimenting is okay if it’s genuine.
Men communicate with facts. Women communicate with feelings.
When communicating to women, the important thing is intention. Negging is okay, if the intention is light-hearted. Complimenting is okay if it’s genuine.
What about telling her your story? If you are trying to impress her, it’s needy behavior. If you are sharing something real, it’s vulnerable.
Any man who is good with women is creepy sometimes.
Creepiness is hard to define for women, but generally, it is whatever threatens her sexuality or security.
If a woman teases you, it means she likes you. Don’t try to out tease her or become defensive.
Emotional connections are more powerful than anything you can learn from a seduction book.
The best opener line is simply to introduce yourself. Always smile, but don’t have a “holy shit, I just won the lottery smile” but a friendly smile.
Use effective language, don’t use more words than you need. Learn how to tell stories, and how to be funny.
Men are most engaged when talking about things outside themselves like sports, cars, and women. Women are most engaged when they are talking about themselves (and each other).
If a woman flakes more than twice when trying to set up a date, then find someone else. Never try too hard. Choose days of the week to ask her out that are logical. Thursdays are better than Saturdays.
Go on dates that involve physical interaction and movement. Avoid awkward dates like the movie theatre.
A woman signals interest when she makes eye contact with you. If she smiles, then she’s waiting for you to go talk to her. She signals escalation when she tries to isolate herself with you, especially when she’s ditching her friends to do so.
Being physical with women is a necessary habit that most men who are poor with women are afraid of.
Use push/pull, as a physical flirtation technique. Many guys worry about the right time to kiss a woman. If you think you can kiss her, then you already could have. When having sex, touch her in a way that peaks her anticipation, don’t rush things.
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